Learning how to do fellatio is not difficult and I will show you why; just follow some simple tips. Learn the techniques to avoid making mistakes; build sexual confidence and know what not to do for a perfect fellatio.

How to get started

Start with foreplay, kissing and cuddling. As you kiss your partner slowly start massaging the penis still in his pants; after a few soft movements take it out and lower the pants in such a way as to have a better grip with the hand. Start moving him up and down and not excessively but gently because applying only a small amount of pressure helps to create the right tension so that when you start with fellatio, his orgasm will be more difficult to achieve. Do not overdo it with either the grip or the speed, and do not go beyond 10 minutes. Move your head towards the groin, look him in the eye and pour a copious amount of kissable on the penis, which lubricates, reduces friction and makes fellatio more greedy and voracious. Then start kissing the penis in its entirety. After less than a minute, start licking it; it is easier to lick from bottom to top than the other way around. The lower part of the penis is the easiest part to lick and is also the most pleasant and stimulating for the man but don’t forget the upper part. Keep licking and start sucking.

The hand and mouth

An inch of penis is now in your oral cavity, continue to massage the tip with your tongue, rubbing it back and forth on the penis or making circular movements. Make sure you use a lot of saliva. The upper side of your tongue offers more stimulation because it is slightly rough. While using your mouth you need to grab the rest of your partner’s penis with one of your hands and move it towards your mouth and alternate pressure and speed.

The “tongue squeezer”

This technique is one of the most advanced and literally drives men crazy. To perform it, the penis must be deep enough in the mouth. Once you have his penis in your mouth, you need to use your tongue to push upwards so that the glans is pushed against the palate. Use your tongue to massage the underside of his penis. You will notice that holding the penis with your hand will help your jaw and tongue not get too tired. The only problem with the tongue squeezer during oral sex is that if your mouth is too small or the penis too big you won’t be able to do it with confidence. A very effective tip to increase the pleasure? Insert a vibrating ring with a tab on the perineum at the base of the penis: the game will make him crazy for as long as possible!

Don’t forget the testicles

At the first experiences with oral sex, it happens to focus only on the penis, which is perfectly understandable but don’t forget that the testicles are an extremely sensitive part and stimulating them is really simple. Just use the palm of your hand, slightly open, and gently rub up and down, squeezing a little, without exaggerating. Then, as soon as you know your partner is enjoying it, vary the pressure to figure out what and how much they like. A slightly more advanced technique is to use the fingers. The testicles may be tickled a little but it will be a wonderful sensation.

Try giving a hands free blowjob

This is a variant to make a ‘nice pump’ (it is a somewhat vulgar term said so, true, but it is interesting to investigate all the synonyms).
Using the hands makes everything more ‘stable’ and faster because the stimulation is double. But sometimes a man likes not to feel your hand, on the contrary, he likes that you use your hands to masturbate in the meantime.
However, it is not one of those cases in which you run to your mother and say to her with great pride: “Look mom, no hands”.

Eye contact and sexual confidence

Maintaining eye contact with your man during fellatio is a very stimulating gesture but at the same time underestimated because you do not realize how fundamental it can be: both partners will be able to keep mutual pleasure under control and feel that they have a form of power. towards each other. When you think about how to give your man a fellatio, you might think about the positions or the various techniques or how to make him enjoy more intensely. But that’s actually not the case: none of these elements will be helpful if you are feeling nervous or clumsy because it is much more satisfying for your man to see you confident and aware of what you are doing than to try new and uncertain techniques.

Sexual trust isn’t all about sex

Often girls don’t understand what I mean when I talk about sexual trust. Being sexually safe does not mean being good at having sex but it means feeling comfortable with your body and knowing your limits and peculiarities.No one is perfect but accepting your body is one of the fundamental elements to be able to have a satisfying sexual relationship with the partner. And remember that you don’t always have to be at the top and have sensational performances because even the partner is afraid of failing by losing an erection due to too much nervousness, so stay relaxed and enjoy it!

Avoid these mistakes

Remember not to use your teeth as his penis is incredibly sensitive. This should go without saying, but it is often easy to forget. The man’s penis is the most sensitive part of his body and biting it there would be extremely painful for him. Sometimes it is almost completely unavoidable, because the penis is too big or your mouth is too small so, to avoid using your teeth, just wrap your lips over it. It won’t be the most pleasant thing for you, but your man will appreciate it. You can use your teeth to stimulate your partner by dragging them very gently and lightly (he should barely feel them) over his penis to give him a slightly different sensation of your soft lips and tongue.

Don’t rely on just one position or one technique

When you find a fellatio technique that seems to be appreciated by your partner, you have the habit of always repeating it at every relationship, but know that sooner or later your man will get tired. Hence, it is very important to constantly vary positions

Useful tips

Masturbate the frenulum

Instead of moving your hand up and down along the penis – a very pleasant and required activity – focus only on the frenulum or point F, that is, the fillet that holds the foreskin and glans together. With the tongue, of course, but also with micro-movements of the hand and a lot of saliva or lubricant. In the first case, spit on it several times very hard (men go crazy for this), in the second, pour the lubricant first on your hand, then on the penis, massaging and spreading profusely. Then do up and down but only on the frenulum, varying the pace and pressure.

Cool or warm your mouth

Temperature games aren’t just the ice cube down your back or the oil candle on your skin. Giving a blowjob with the tip of the cold tongue or with the lips first dabbed with hot water will already be something new, however simple. Of course, it can also be done with food or kissables, but let’s start with the abc.

Some like it behind

There are few who admit that they want a little something even around the anal area, due to the unjustified fear of being gay. The most advanced, however, will be the first to ask you. For everyone, the advice is to take the initiative and be the one to take off his panties while he is standing. At that point he begins to have oral sex, just to moisten the penis and facilitate the subsequent friction, and then go after it, continuing to masturbate it with your hands. He kisses, nibbles and sinks his face between the buttocks and then, with nonchalance, lick closer and closer to the anus making circular movements with the tongue. If it doesn’t stop you, lick and suck the anus without ever stopping the masturbation of the penis. A bit like playing the trumpet, in short. And here too, as in music, coordination and rhythm are needed. Try to keep time. It won’t be rimmel, but rimming is always a good trick.